Musings of a valid complaint queen

With back ups. And second, third, fourth, fifth etc opinions. 

Actually i dont understand why pple have to ask me instead of asking back the boss? Cos im supposed to bridge? Cos they are confused. So why cant the boss guide properly. The staff dont follow but dont clarify cos the boss is talking in circles, not targeting the issue but digress and result in no conclusion from the meetings. Really something wrong with the bosses ya? Sometimes i dont understand how did they get up there or have they replaced their old skills with new skills. Pls. Even if i can climb up he ladder, i do not want to be categorised like tat. The gap can be this big? There shldnt be a case where middle mgmt is always required. Why cant all be in a team or at least act to be like one? Gosh. Simple things can be complicated by pple. What are the brains thinking ? Cannot grasp issues at all. Not answering. What was the question, do u even know? Gosh. Talk to the hand next time. 

It is really impt to form the right team. With the right minded pple. In the sense that pple can complement one another and not confuse one another. The same sdm, everyone else qn mark on why the comment was made. And nobody bothers to question. And i understand why. There r too many of such comments, if qn every one, no lunch time already. So jus let them pass. We take it offline. So obviously who are in the team and who are not right? So those moments are really wasting time. It is.  Admit that it is wasting time. Not converging at all. Not productive. And if pple choose to follow, it is a deliberate choice after agreeing to disagree. Do not force pple to agree. And there is no such thing as no choice. Jus accept that pple are following ur decision. What is wrong with that? Be confident and firm of ur own decision. Accept differences among pple. Pple disagree, some voice out some dont. Doesnt mean those who dont voice out agree with u pls. Unbelievable leh. Isnt this common sense. Stumbling block and obstacle. Far from enabling. Seriously. Already v patient but the patience is kept being tested as minutes or hours passed. Really lesson learnt. Let it pass. Solve problems on ur own or spend time discussing with ur real team mates. It is faster. 

Maybe if pple stop coming to me, my concept will also not be reinforced. But exactly why they come to ask is becos the discussion din give them enuff guidance la. Wat on earth is he talking abt? One got to teach how to fish and not give the person a fish. Ask them do this do that. Can u jus explain the why and let them figure out which path to take to rome. I especially loathe pple ask me do this do that. Dotz leh. I have a mind of my own. Dont need to treat me like a puppet. So proven. Why this method doesnt work. Pple ask me why mus i do this? I was like wasnt it explained? How would i know. I was not the one who said that. puppets vs real thinkers and independent pilots, lets see which team will fly further. Can the former even crawl? Not to mention fly. Enuff is enuff man. Inner peace. Always there until....