Everyone shld be calm on the inside. They r on the outside. They can handle such discrepancy betw the inner self and outer self. I cant. Loll im really an open door. So it is a good skill to be able to conceal whenever u want to. But their insides are prolly having bigger waves than what we can see from the naked eyes. Dealing with these 2 increase my sensitivity towards pple. Both are phlegmatics. So thanks for training me to sense. And im the confrontational type. I will verify my second guessing or assumption and thanks them for always opening up and telling me honestly. Sincere comms make things easier. However. Both have fears. Which lead them to uncertainty and then fickle mindedness. Hmm. So ya always i try to allay their fears. Nothing to fear. Embrace the future and look forward to a brighter one. Unknowns are exciting. And deals with whatever comes ur way. It is a mindset, an attitude, a choice to face it. The future. Isnt it?