Even if i want to lvl up, im not gg to learn this path. It is my choice. Not interested to take that path at all.
The infra workshop was mind boggling. Nobody understands the intent but managed to go with the flow. Im also glad that many of us beg to differ the pt shared on relationship vs outcome. Of cos win-win will be taking care of both. But the approach is offend the person with intent then after that go and "sayang" the person. Dotz leh. Offend with intent is unforgivable. It is jus wishful thinking that u can salvage the r/s jus by gg back to the person after that? Pls. I would rather u not come feigning or explaining that u have no choice due to situation. No such thing as no choice. U have chose to offend at that pt in time. So pls. And so fluffy. Observations become lecture. Pple obviously dun get it. I inferred it as facilitating the awareness of one another so that we can be more tolerant with each other.
Another horrible brainwash is prioritising the vip. Fren said im an oxymoron. Im v easygoing and blur usually but can be agitated. They do not gel as one person. Shrugs. I suppose i am not like myself when im angry. I will not hesitate to show displeasure and stay firm if it is against my principles. The choice of actions is despicable to me. Why mus i follow in silence? U want u can carry on, dont drag me along this crap. The brainwash is jus ridiculous. Counterpropose cant u? U r jus encouraging vip to treat themselves as vip. If they expect themselves to be treated as kings, i will treat them more like dirt. What kind of expectation is that. Go and find boot licking minions then.
As bosses, shld open ur eyes and ears to see. Not wait for unsung heroes to tell u. Nv tell u too bad? Again agitated cos it is obviously a flawed system. Flawed mindset. And nobody is doing anything to change the norm to the better like the pioneer of the women movement who managed a breakthrough. Yet, they stupidly join in what is deemed to be accepted and thus adapt. Adapt is a positive word. But really, they stupidly adapt. Then most imptly, it is their choice. Do not impose such actions on others. I judge only when they want me to follow their which i obviously loathe. Otherwise yes i will keep the judgement to myself. Dont blame me for being nasty if u r the one who 强人所难.
And whoa realise also many pple are actually v observant. Same sentiments. Amazing that pple can reenact, can be scary at times, cos they rmb. Does thisncount as bearing grudges? Whats the pt of rmbering? They can mimic. They know what will they say knowing their pattern. "we have compensated u" quoted by someone i din expect. I din think they r not happy abt this. There r more grievances than i thot in the field. And yes i dun see link betw the compensation and the r/s. Personal balance obtain from compensation? Not good. But yet glad that im not the only one who disapproves. And huh? those egs were like years back. And yes many are against reading in betw the lines, this is jus trying to be political. Second guessing. Even if others are doing it, we do not need to join in.
And yes i realise when im motivated, tho with abit of sceptism and still do not fully agree but mostly agreed is enuff actually, by one, im always demotivated by another. I am reminded that they are exact opposites tho amazingly they complemented each other. Shrugs. One remains bright and hopeful which definitely suits me more. The other is dark. Dark? I dunno how is dark like. But yea if the thinking and the intent are the same, the pitch is different. Obviously i cant fit in the darker pitch. Always clash.
Ya all of us also realise that we were always told that we shld be doing this and that, shld seek to clarify, shld ask, shld sync more, shld pre empt and prepare, never ending shlds. And these action items are for us, none for the bosses. When they r obviously wrong, they do not have the shld. They have no action items for themselves. Only we need to change. How fair is this?
And im seriously impressed. Proves to be understanding. Hilarious to be able to mimic. Amazing.
"Yea meet more to synchro. This type of mtg is good."
can imagine every sentence can counter.
" yes u give up u keep quiet, but he will poke until u explode. Will somehow say the magic trigger when u keep quiet, and i guarantee and cfm that u will sure explode."
Blogged the above 3 days ago. Didnt publish cos run out of data plan on the move.
